We have seen a lot around here about "should I leg lock people" "are wrist locks a dick move" and such but what is y'alls overall dos and don'ts?
For example I won't leg lock white belts or new people in general if I get any kind of joint lock (Kimora, armbar, knee bar or such) I'll let it go after a while if they don't tap. With my teammates we will do any subs. With people from other gyms I stay away from leg locks again because som people get pissy about them. And we usually start from standing unless someone request to start from knees. But what is r/Bjj's opinion?